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im Kristin. 20 years old. Criminal justice major/psychology minor at Georgia Southern University - let the good times roll =]. i'm really laid back, love talking to people, and having a good time. i get on here when i'm bored so if you have a question, inbox me!

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k so i wanna know if its possible to make a guy that doesn't want to be in a relationship change his mind. like are there things a girl can do to make the guy want to commit to her. i was with this guy and he really didn't want to be committed. he always hooked up with several girls at once. but he met me and stopped talking to everyone else and looked like he was about to commit but then changed his mind and backed out. so now were friends but i wanna know how to make him want me as a girlfriend...

first off stop hooking up with him until yall ARE together. if you dont, he's just getting what he wants and therefore doesnt "need" to be in a relationship. if he says he doesnt want anything serious, theres not much you can do. i know that feeling, and i know the feeling of guys trying to nag & push me into being with them. that just makes me want to be FARTHER from them. you should tell him flat out that if he doesnt wanna be with you, then you're going on with your life. dont flirt, dont hook up, dont show interest as more than friends. if he DOES in fact like you, this should change his mind and he'll want to be with you [it's been known to work ;)] you could even flirt in front of him to make it that much better. if he still decides he doesnt want to be with you, he's not worth waiting around on. good luck =]

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