I am a father of three, girl, boy, girl, all are now over 18. I have been married for 29 years as of 6-30-07, so yes, if you do the math I was married at 18, just after graduating high school. I am very aware of the pit falls of doing so, but we made it through the really tough times. I came to this site, because of my daughter, she also uses the site.
I am an author and have written three books, only one under this name, but it is not how I make my living. I am in business, working full time and I have a seasonal business in ponds, selling Koi, goldfish, water plants and supplies. I help people to plan and build ponds, as well as, maintenance if they need it.
I am not here for the ratings and could careless what you rate me. I will tell you things I know, I will tell you what you don't want to hear, but most of all, I will tell you things from my perspective. I have experienced a lot in my life, I have not lived with my head in the sand and I'm a realist, you want someone to blow smoke up your as*, don't read my writings, (I don't do fairy tales).
I am not so foolish as to think I am always right, I can only tell you what I know and give you something to think about. It is up to you to find out if I'm right or not.
Life is complicated, because people are complicated and one answer does not necessarily fit all, but that doesn't mean you should not consider what I say as a possibility.
Feel free to write me personally if you wish, there is only so much you can say in such a restrictive environment as this site is, it doesn't allow for proper conversation.
Thank you for coming to my column and giving me the chance to help.
E-mail: gibber@cableone.net
Gender: Male
Location: Minnesota
Age: 53
Member Since: May 14, 2008
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Im nineteen female. Two partners. Im going to take a test to make sure im clean. I dnt knw what to expect. Can you help? (link)
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Off the top of my head, I can not think of anything that they would test for that is beyond the taking and testing of blood, or urine. They may want to do a pap test, but I'm not sure why they would, you should still be prepared for it.
I am assuming by clean you are talking no STD's etc..., if you've read my stuff at all, you know I often get into trouble assuming that people actually understand what the words they are using mean. I also wonder why you come to me for this question, mind you it does not bother me, but from my writings, I can not believe you would consider me a good person to ask about a situation involving an "alternative" life style.
The fact you mention that you have two partners, when this is completely irrelevant to the question, speaks to me. I'm not sure if you're baiting me, or if you are questioning your life style. I hate to tell you this, but I have no prejudice toward any lifestyle, if all concerned are fully informed and fully in agreement.
If you are questioning this lifestyle, I would be happy to discus this with you, If, however, this was not a Freudian slip and just unneeded info, I wish you well.
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what i meant by two partners was that i had the guy who look my virginity who was an ex bf. now i am with my recent bf, he is my second partner. i just wanted to knw what they would be doing while testing me.
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