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Okay, me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a month and a half. He hasn't ever been over to my house before, i have been to his once. Well at first i was really nervous about him coming over and when i finally get the courage to ask him over, my mom tells me that when he comes over, i have to leave the door to my room open. This sucks. I'm not a whore at all and would not even think about doing "anything." My mom knows this too. She just wants to be sure. Anyways, i was planning on watching a movie in my room but i cant do that now because i have an two brothers, my step dad and my mom and if i leave the door open, you can see in my room from the kitchen (where everyone usually is) or the living room. I just can't have this. I don't liked to watched and it just adds to the pressure in the first place. What should i do? Thanks! (link)
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My parents are the same way. They're just assuring you don't do anything you'll regret. I can't really tell you much more than to tell them how you feel. However, when my boyfriend is over, I usually just realx with him in the living room and watch tv. Even though my dad and step-mom are watching, I find it to be really no big deal.
Maybe you could ask your mom/dad to maybe have your door half open. This way, the door will be open enough to make sure they can see you, but still enough for your own privacy (even though if they can see you, it doesn't feel much like privacy).
It's really not that bad, I think you're overthinking how he'll feel about the whole situation. But honestly, just tell him, "don't mind my parents...you know how parents can be...", I'm sure he'll understand.
You will be fine ! Don't Worry !
I hope I helped !
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