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Okay so im 18f and hes 23m
Hes my old bosses son andive liked hm for quite some time. Im going to the works xmas party with a friend who still works there and i know hes gonna be there.
I realy want to let him know i want him. What are some things i can do or say to make him know this and turn him on. But it has to be something that i could do in a croud and not have the other people know.
THANKS! (link)
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So, going up and asking him if he would like to go out with you sometime sucks so bad it deserves a 1. And I'm sorry, but saying, "I want him," and you want to "turn him on". Is sexual in any bodies book, though I did give you the benefit of the doubt in my original post, why is it you can't just ignore the stuff that doesn't apply. You have taken it personal and you don't even know me. I think you might be just a bit unstable right now, maybe you should take a breath.
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Your just going to give me a 1 rating and not respond to me. I gave you advice for both possibilities and neither one of them deserves a 1. Okay, maybe they are not fives, but your question is not a five either. Words mean things, when it is all we have to go on, could you be more careful how you use them please.
Normally, romantic advice is a specialty of mine, but in your case that's not what you need. In your words, I don't see romance, I see, teach me to be a whore, no offense. (First and second line, second paragraph.) You do it your way and that's the way he'll see it. You will not become anything serious, whores never do. So you need to decide what it is you want, something that could be serious, or a one night stand.
You want something serious, then go up and ask him if he would care to go out sometime with you. You want a one night stand, go up and whisper in his ear "I want to F_ck you", nothing turns a guy on more then that direct statement coming from the right girl, you just have to hope you're the right girl.
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too bad becoming a whore is deff not my intentions... wanting him could be any thing to wanting him to kiss me. Maybe i chose my words wrongly. Either way your advice sucks.
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