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16/f. I have a huge crush on this kid. I met him at a music honor society meeting at my school. We talked alot and found out that we actually play the same instrument and have alot in common. He knew who I was right away though because he knows my brother. Well, last night, we ended up at the same get-together of a mutual friends and we hung out the whole time even though we barely knew eachother. He is so sweet and cute and now I really like him. I flirted with him, and I got the feeling that he kinda liked me too because he would stand really close to me when talking to me and make any excuse to touch me. Example: he says: "I make all my new friends shake hands with me for 15 minutes." I say: "okay!" Result: Us holding hands for a long time.. haha. Also, putting his hand on my shoulder when saying somthing important, ect. So heres the problem: I have no classes with him, we're never at the same social gatherings (this was the first time), and I am not comfortable enough with our mutual friend to ask him to set us up. Music honor society meets like every 2 weeks only, so I'll see him this wednesday, what should I do to make sure he remembers me or asks me to hang out or somthing? I really like him, but I have to make every meeting with him count!

it seems like he likes you to but dont try to rush anything.
maybe get his number and text him. that would be the smart thing to do. hang out wiht him at the meeting as much as you can and try to subtly hint that you like him.
if he likes you too, im sure he will continue flirting with you and such. go with it and maybe if he doesnt say anything, at the end of the meeting say something like "we should hang out sometime." hope everything works out!

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(Rating: 5) thank you. unfortunately, I cant text, but if it seems appropiate, maybe ill ask him to hang out this weekend... haha your advice and the other users advice didn't really give me any real tips that i didn't already know, but it did give me a burst of confidence! thanks again.

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