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hey so one of my best friends always seems unhappy. like when i see her in class or in the hallway she just looks really pissed / sad. so, naturally, i ask her what's wrong and she gets annoyed because it's just her natural expression. but sometimes, she tells me something that's bothering her. i don't want to constantly ask, "what's wrong?" cause i can see why that's annoying and yeah i'm not expecting her to be smiling 24/7 but how am i supposed to distinguish between when she's just neutral or when she's mad / sad? do you really think that's her natural expression... ? like she beams when she's laughing but otherwise she just looks pissed, and this is especially frustrating for me when i comment on something and she doesn't respond. i want her to know i'm there for her but in what ways can i ask, "what's wrong?" without explicitly asking that? i already use, "how are you?" ..

I have a friend that used to be like that. She suffers from depression. And i honestly didnt know what else to say because i saw that everytime i asked what was wrong, she would get even more pissed off and annoyed.

So, i started waiting for her to talk to me. I would know how her mood was by what she said to me. And then i just went on from there.

You could also think of something funny to say when you first see her, and see what happens from there :]


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