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I have never made out with a guy before. Just kissed them. Well when the moment comes, i want to be prepared. I know a lot of people say that making out is natural and everything but i am completely clueless on what it is and how you do it pleasedon't say, it comes natural. If you could tell me what it is and how you do it with steps or something like that, that would be great. Thanks! (link)
This is something I can totally relate to. Making out is just an extended kiss. Kissing session, rather. I remember, like mid-September-ish, my boyfriend wanted to makeout with me and I remember thinking like "Oh my gosh. I have no idea what to do. What am I going to do?" I didn't want to ask anyone because that is rather embarrassing and I definitely didn't want to talk about it with my boyfriend. That's even worse lol.

So what I did, was look on the internet (because anything and everything is found on the internet) to look for some tips and maybe even some steps. If you want to do the same, just go to google and type "how to make out".

After I did that, I had so much more confidence, you don't even know. I was just like, "okay, I can do this without stressing and worrying". When the time came, I was relaxed and not mortified.

Though, my main worry was "what if he thinks I'm not a good kisser?" But that didn't even cross my mind when I first made out with him.

How did I do it? Well, I waited for the right moment and he pulled me in for it. I followed his lead and everything went well. I can't tell you exact how-to dircections, because what my boyfriend did may be different to what the guy you make out with has planned. But I can tell you that it started out as a kiss and we gradually went further into an "extended kiss".

Just be yourself and be relaxed and I can guartentee he won't even notice if you're good or not. My own tips: I usually stroke his back once or twice, put my hand(s) on the back of his neck or on his cheek.

Making out may lead to other things and if you're uncomfortable doing whatever it may lead to, don't feel pressured to do so.

P.S. Do not forget to close your eyes !

I hope I helped !!!



Answer to Your Feedback Question:
Well, you don't have to. I never put my tongue in my boyfriends mouth. He always puts his in my mouth. Don't worry about it, you'll know when your tongue is needed. I know you don't want to hear it, but it's really a very natural thing and it'll just come to you :]


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thanks!! Am i supposed to put my tongue in his mouth or his in mine?? Please email me back with the answer! Thanks again! it helped a lot!




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