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15/F
I've never kissed a guy but over half the kids I know have already lost their virginity or gotten way close to losing it. And they're all like "YOUVE never kissed a guy? youre gonna end up like the 40 year old virgin, oh i know this guy for you" or whatever
And I 'pleasure' myself and stuff but just doing that, I feel SOOO guilty like I cant leave my room after.
And theres this guy that wants to do stuff with me and I really like him, and I talked to my mom about how I dont think hes that good of a person to hang around and she told me how my sister lost her virginity to a guy when she was my age.. which didnt really help.
But I reallly wanna do SOMETHING with a guy to know how it feels.. but at the same time I dont because I like being special, and feeling proud, and seeing peoples reactions when I tell them.
I just don't know what to do :[
this is highschool and its hard (link)
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I know exactly how you feel. I wanted my first kiss to be with someone I really liked and someone who gave me butterflies every time I saw him. I waited for my (now) boyfriend to ask me out and I even made him wait like 2 and half weeks to actually kiss him. My theory is, you have a first for everything. Do you really want your first [kiss] to be with someone you don't have a lot of feelings for? It may seem like the first kiss is no biggie, but the thing is, the first should still be special. And for me it was. I think the same should apply to you and many other girls who feel the way you do.
Who cares what people have to say? If they didn't wait for someone they cared about, then that sucks for them. I gave my first kiss to someone who DESERVED it. I'm not just going to let any random guy have it. It was special to me and should be for other girls as well.
Teens let middle/high school really get to them. Yes, we entered a bigger school with older kids, who are having sex. But that doesn't mean you shouldn't wait for a committed relationship to do the same. Fitting into the crowd is so dragged out. Be yourself and do what you believe is right. And if that means waiting for the perfect person who you believe is the right guy, then so be it.
Wait. Patience is truly a virtue. Don't take yourself for granted and try and become like every other girl who thinks Abercrombie is the only clothes line out there, kisses and hooks up with every guy she knows. Be yourself and be unique, it really pays off. And my guy finds it quite attractive.
Hope I helped !!
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Rating: 5
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Aw you helped so much!
Now I just gotta find that guy :]
lol goshh
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