Kendra is a young woman working as a professional in Toronto. She's a cat lover, a bookworm and has always had a deeply rooted interest in people, love and what happens when the former attempts the later.
She's been in three long term relationships, lost her mother when she was 16 and has lived through her father's alcoholism and drug abuse. She's a college graduate in journalism and art, has a quirky personality and has acquired some realistic yet romantic beliefs about love and relationships.
She lives with her boyfriend. Life may not have always been good, but it is good now.
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Ok.. so im not very good at like dating or with love. it seems everytime i get close to someone, i always end up hurt. well i had 2 loves in my life they were about 5 years apart. well i finally moved on and i found someone new. Im falling so deeply in love, i mean i never felt this way before ever!! this is like i think about this person all the time and i can see myself being with them, everyone thinks were so good togther. but i always have this feeling that things aren't so great. Now am i just feeling that way cause im just afraid to get hurt? i think this relationship is amazing, and its gonna work, but then i feel like it wont. im just so confused??
if you could help me..i'd be gratefull (link)
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Most relationships fail or end. Think about it. How many people fall in love once, get married and then live out their lives together and die together?
That never happens.
You're likely to have relationships end in the course of your life. It's the human experience and nothing to worry about. Hey, this relationship may end. And then maybe you'll learn some things about yourself and what you want and what you should and shouldn't do.
Or maybe it won't and this will be it. One thing I do know, though, is this: If you spend too much time worrying about it ending then you're not really enjoying the relationship. Bringing neurosis into a happy relationship is a good way to make it end.
Will you never get a pet just because it'll die and you'll get hurt? Will you never have children because giving birth will hurt? And you'll be worried about them and that will hurt? will you never make friends because you may grow apart and it will hurt?
Life is pain. Life can be great, but there is always the eventuality of pain. Just accept that and try to take joy in what you have while you have it. The only person you're ever guaranteed to have your whole life is yourself. You can't worry about things ending to the point you're picking apart the things that make you happy.
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wow. your're totally right. thank you so much!! you were a big help!:)
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