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Alright, so this question is going to make me sound extremely stupid, but should I convert my religion to try to get with this guy that i really like? He's mormon, and I looked up some stuff and it says that mormons can only date other mormons. I really want to be with him. We dont actually know each other. Ive introduced myself twice and he thinks im crazy, but I want him to notice me in a good way and i think going to his church and being all mormon will be a good way to get his attention and show him that im right for him.
Plus I have no real religion as of right now. I mean I believe in God and all that but I dont go to church.
Any advice will be appriciated
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I would absolutely not convert.
Do you know what Mormons believe? They think Jesus came to North America. They believe this guy read a new gospel from special stones and when the guy was asked to re-write the gospel again exactly the way it was written the first time, he couldn't. They think black skin is the result of being a sinful person and belief in Jesus will turn skin light. Some believe in having more than one wife. Also, no alcohol, ever.
Do you want to sign up for this because of some guy? Let me tell you something, if he thinks you're crazy now, which you've said he does, then he's really going to think you're nuts if you convert for him for any reason since he's not interested in you.
If you're not a church person, I'd focus more on finding a guy who is also not a church person. Shared values are important.
Fact is you don't know anything about this boy, except that you're attracted to him. Joining a religion for someone you don't know is never going to be a good idea. You'll regret it later.
And besides, you can't make someone like you. They either are attracted to you or they're not. No amount of converting will change his mind.
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Thanks so muchh.
your advice was the best :)
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