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Hello! My name is Paige. I have been through plenty of experiences, so i think i give good advice. You can ask me anything from family stuff to sex. If i dont know the answer to something, i will try my hardest to find the information. I will NEVER reject questions people leave in my inbox, in fact i LOVE getting them! IF YOU SEND ME AN INBOX MESSAGE PLEASE LEAVE YOUR EMAIL IF YOU ARE AN UNREGISTERED USER! I wont sugar coat anything, i will be straight forward and truthful with you. Talk to me in my forum!
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Let me begin by saying that i am not one that needs to be in a relationship in order to have sex. So a few weekends ago this guy and i were drunk and ended up having sex. he kept saying that it wasn't a one night stand for him, but then again he was drunk. We ended up falling asleep together and then when we both got home, he texted me and said he wasn't just talking to me for sex. ok yeah that's what they all say ha. but anyways, went over to his house a few days later and had sex with him again. i haven't seen him in about a week and a half now and he has texted me every night since then. Not about sex all the time, but just to see how my day was, just small talk. He is in trouble right now from school so i won't see him for a while. yet he still texts me. so what do you think, is he using me or do you think there's a chance he might actually want something else besides sex?
Honestly, i agree with you 100% on not having to be in a relationship to have sex. I am going through exactly what you are right now. I have been going through it for 3 years give or take. Although he may not or may not be using you for sex, the chances are high. Friends with benefits is a hurtful thing, i know first hand. I cant tell you if he is or isnt, but i will warn you be aware that he MIGHT be. Dont fall head over heels for him, like i did. If you need anymore adivce on this, msg my inbox or instant msg me on aim - myexquisitesn. We can talk about it, and i know exactly what youre going through :]
Good luck!
(Rating: 5) Thank you i really appreciate that, and glad to know i'm not alone in this position. boys are really persuasive aren't they ha. they have more power over us then they think..