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Q: I have this friend who never leaves me alone. We went on vacation together over the summer and her family is pretty awesome. Well anyways its months later and she doesn't get the idea i need space. I don't want to be mean and tell her off because that would seem like i'm a complete bitch and was using her to go on a vacation.
Most of my friends can't stand her and shes very full of herself and likes to point out flaws on me sometimes. It gets annoying, she never stops talking about the same thing over and over. Lately she hasn't stopped talking about drugs and getting high which has gotten on my nerves. I tell her to shut up and i don't care about that and it doesn't interest me. But she doesn't stop.
Recently she tried to set me up with this guy friend of hers whose in 8th grade and i'm in 11th and i dunno if i should take that offensively or not.
She has also been a bother with lunch and everyone wants me to make her leave our table because she wasn't there the first week of school and now there isn't enough space for the orignal ones of us who sat there. I recently found out she is bi, i am too but shes really clingy doesn't leave me alone and happens to be everywhere i am and like pays attention to every detail about me which gets kinda creepy. Anyways yeah i dunno what to do without seeming like a bitch or making a huge scene or loss of our friendship. Any ideas?
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Well first idea of her, maybe she likes you, maybe she has gone through the same things she's putting you through or most obviously maybe shes jealous, because just becasue shes always outting you down on your flawa, makes that a visible flaw of hers, what you should do is be honest with her and tell her how you, feel, while doing that reflect your true feelings of it to her, this could cause her to open up to you and tell you why she acts the way she does. I hope it goes well. GOOD LUCK!
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Ok thanks i could give that a try.
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Im 16, and I guess Im into advice columns. I like giving advice, because I like helping others, especially those who may have the same issues they need help on that I have. I'm always looking for advice websites, because, to be honest advice columns are fun! ;)So anyone feel free to ask me a question, and I'll try to get you on a clear road of a solution. Lol
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Website: Gender: Female Location: Rich City (Richmond), Virginia Occupation: Financial Manager (my mother's company), red cross volunteer, janitorial helper Age: 16 Member Since: October 8, 2008 Answers: 36 Last Update: January 14, 2009 Visitors: 4280
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