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I met this guy this beginning of school, and I was new to the school. I was talking to one of my friends there, and I saw him, and I was like shittttttttt who's that?! And she told me and I was like I want him, I'm gonna get him. And sure thing, I did get him. We got to know each other real well, we starting falling in love I swear, and we were together for about 2 weeks at this time. We had so much in common, I came into his room, it was full of German flags, I was like holy shit, you like Germany?! And he's like hell yeah! And my news was that well hey I was born there and I go there every year. I fucking love Germany. It was crazy. We finished each other sentences. Told each other we loved each other, cared about each other, and missed each other all the time. And we weren't obsessive either, we'd talk on the phone like twice a day at most. We had a great relationship. But thing is, I was his first. So when it came to school, he wasn't that affectionate and didn't really know how to act. So anyways, we dated, then for some reason. He broke up with me, because he heard I was going to break up with him because of the way he was acting. So he dumped me. After that, we were still talking to each other, hanging out, and obviously not over each other. He asked me out 2 days later. Everything was going smoothly and we liked each other so much. When I was around him, I got butterflies and I felt so happy, it's like nothing I've ever felt for a guy before. He was perfect literally. So we hang out this one weekend, we go to a party, get drunk as fuck, and I puke in his aunt's bathroom and miss the toilet. He has to clean up my puke for 45 min. while I'm outside puking some more. SO his mom finds out we got drunk, and she had to drive me home, and his family is not too happy at all. So him and I are still close. Then in the morning I text him and tell him we're not hanging out today even though we have plans. He says hey I don't know about us anymore. And I started getting teary eyed wondering what the hell is wrong. He tells me he doesn't want to be with me anymore. So I'm like alright why again? He says because he has mixed feelings right now. So we're still friends, and hang out and stuff. One day we talk on the phone and he wants to hang out with me to help him babysit. The women doesn't end up coming home till 4 a.m. We sleep together of course. I tell him, if you want me, I'm not going to wait forever. He says I'll ask you back in a week span, I fucking miss you, love you, yadayadayada. So the week comes by, we don't even talk. So then we're still friends, but things are moving slowly for no reason. I haven't done anything to him. So then somehow he hears that I was talking shit about him I guess, which I really wasn't, I was just mad because he ignores me in school and treats me like shit in public. He just doesn't act like the same person all the time. It was like he was fake or something or new to this relationship thing. Well anyway, now since he heard that, he doesn't want to deal with me shit and all this, he's not talking to me at all, not even looking at me. I try texting him, he doesn't talk to me. He's just cutting me out of his life. I'm fucking miss him so much and I want him back so bad. I have no idea what to do. He won't talk to me and it's killing me like crazy. I really don't know what to do. I just wish we could at least be friends then him hating me. Because it really sucks. I just want everything back to the way it was. I would talk to him face to face, but I'm way too scared. What should I do? Please help me. Thank you.(:
It sounds like you both need a little break from each other thats maybe longer than 2 weeks. it's proven that the most healthiest relationships are ones where you're not with them all of them time.
Also, please don't get offended but you said that you said "i love you" after 2 weeks....if you just met him and been dating him for only 2 weeks chances are you don't love him. correct me if im wrong but your probably just physically attracted to him or just really like him because you guys are really similar. Sometimes its not a good thing that you guys are that similar because its kind of like dating yourself..in guy form...if you know what i mean. i'm not sure if you've ever heard of the saying "opposites attract".
so anyways what i'd do is just take a break from this guy...let him do the chasing, not you. if he really "loves" you then he'll work it out, it not, you deserve better.
good luck with everything =)
(Rating: 5) Thank you for the advice. I really appreciate it. I really hope we at least start talking. I don't know, it makes me sad that we don't. But thank you. (: