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I have a strange situation here. I'm 18/m, in college, and there is a girl in my class with whom I was really good friends with, then we added each other on myspace (I REALLY like her by now), I ask her to the movies, during the movie we cuddle/hold hands. If felt right and she was the one who initiated everything.
Then the next day she asks me if we are dating, to which I say yes, then she says that we should be going out instead, and on her profile she puts the 'in a relationship' status. Then the next day we have class together, and she seemed really seemed more quiet. That night she tells me she might be a lesbian, or bisexual, but she still really likes me and wants to work this out. Then she tells me she only likes me as a friend but we can still hang out and stuff. She changed her relationship status to single. We went out to dinner, it was awkward, and she kind of completely stopped talking to me since. I asked her about it and she told me she wasn't mad at me, and she'll explain next class. She didn't. I asked her about it again and she said she'll explain this weekend. Well, its Sunday night, and she still hadn't said a word to me. She won't even look at me.
I'm confused. First she was telling me how much she liked me (I believe she was being genuine, just trust me on this), then how she didn't like me that way and how she still wants to work this out, now she isn't talking to me at all. And we are in the same group of friends and she still talks to them. Whats happening? What should I do? She is 17 by the way but also in college. (link)
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I would have to say that she is a lesbian. Girls don't tell guys that they are bisexual or a lesbian unless they are trying to get attention at a party, unless they actually are.
Believe me, I would just give this girl space. My mom is a lesbian and this girl is probably a lesbian but is very scared about it and is very confused. She probably did rush into a relationship with you because she wanted to hide her feelings for a girl...but then realized that wasn't fair to you so she told you about what she was thinking. I would tell her that you are here for her if she wants to talk and let her know that you still like her but you will respect any decision she makes in her life. If she is a lesbian she probably really does like you....but she's a lesbian...and just doesn't like guys like that.
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