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Ok so I have started to like this guy and we have been friends for a long time. We just realized that we have feelings for eachother and surprisingly its really not that awkward. The only thing that i am hesitant about is that hes not like a manly man and he doesnt ahve alot of guy friends. It kind of bothers me because I want him to be a man's man..thats what im attracted to. What shouldi do about this? should i tell him and whats your opinion?
Well, see telling him that you want him to be a "manly-man" would be wrong, because then your trying to make him change who he is for you. You should like people for who they are. If you don't like him not being a manly man, then don't go out with him, but i must say if that's the decision you make, you are going to be acting very very shallow. If you like him, then there has got to be something there that you like. You either decide to deal with the fact that he's not a manly man, or not.
Also, if you've ever noticed, the "manly" guys usually end up being jerks... They aren't really nice guys most of the time. The guys like him are the ones that are the best boyfriends. I'm telling you, he's gonna treat you right 10 times more often than a jock or "manly-man"
Hope that helps you, but in the end the decision is yours.
(Rating: 5) thanks for the advice! its just hard to like a guy different than what you usually like..ive always been attracted to the meat head jocks and its just kind of weird not liking that type ya know?