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so i'm fourteen years old, my birthday is in december, i'm verrrry mature for my age. i know whats right from wrong, and stuff like that. i just got out of a relationship that was basically based on sexuall things like handjobs, blowjobs, fingering, and stuff. me and my ex boyfriend (16) would do stuff everyday we hung out. it was okay and stuff but idk it made me more mature. i am now in a relationship with a boy that has been my friend since late july ish? i have kinda liked him since late july, but he had a girlfriend till mid august, and i dated my ex boyfriend from late july to late august. anyways, my "new" boyfriend was basically my bestfriend, and i feel really comfortable with him. i kinda want to have sex with him i'm just scared, and i think it's too early, but i still want to. i'm just scared about what would happen, and if i went to the doctors or something they would ask me and i dont want to tell my mom, because i really dont have a good relationship with my mom. i am definatly scared that somehow if one of our parents found out what would happen because my mom and his mom are good friends. he is 16, turning 17 on october 25th. also, we are in a long distance relationship (live about an hour away) but we try to see eacother every weekend beause he has a camp where i do. i need advice about what i should do, and basically a lot of information about sex. :/
well you said it yourself, you want to but you are scared. wanting to are the hormones acting up at this age. there is plenty of time for sex down the road. at this young age, people date for a few months and move on, im not saying this will be your case, its just the statistics. you dont want to give up something so valuable that you cant get back do you? i dont want to see you getting hurt. and at your age, i would stay away from sex. stay away from it until you are settled down at an older age and in deep love!
wait until you are so ready your scared feelings disappear. and wait until you can take responsibility. sex is very emotional..especially for a virgin . wait for the special one. 14 is very very young in my opinion. dont become a statistic. so many young people say they wish they would have waited. virginity is taken away and when it is,, it never comes back again.
(Rating: 5) thank you, i know that i really care about him, and i don't want to mess this up. no sex. thank you !