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Just a couple of things which everyone should know..
1) A love relationship is a TWO way thing, you BOTH have to be on the SAME page.. Communication is vital. FACT.
2) You don't need negative people in your life to bring you down, you get enough of that as it is. You need positive people, to raise you higher.. FACT.
3) Believe in yourself, if you start to, everyone else will. So focus on the good things, because that is what you will naturally flaunt.. Which makes everyone focus on the good things! TRUTH.
4) You only live once, so don't screw it up! Make the most of this ONE life! FACT.
5) Life's all about making mistakes, forgiving, letting go, falling in love, making friends, and best of all, LAUGHING OUT LOUD!! ;) Laughter IS the best medicine.. Trust me! ;) FACT.

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17/f
I met this guy at a party i went to friday night and i thought he was pretty cute. I told my friend that and she told him. He said i was pretty but he also liked someone else at the moment. Yesterday, one of my friends asked him why he didn't talk to me and he said he didn't want to talk about it. Today, i told a different friend to tell him that i thought he was cute but i didn't know if i liked him or not because i didn't really know him. He just said "okay." He never talks to me and i really want to get to know him. I don't know him because i have only met him briefly at the party and it was really quick and i thought he was cute. Well i don't know what to do now because i can't just go up to him and start talking because i don't know if him and i have no clue what i would say. I want him to come to me first but he won't. I am trying to get stuff started between us because i really think i would like him. Two guys this year that i thought were cute, i told them and they don't react which puts me in a bad position because i don't know where to go from there and it's really awkward. Should i not tell the guys i think are cute that they are cute anymore and get to know them before i tell them or what? please help! Also, what do i do about this guy? Going up to him and talking to him would be extremely weird or writing a note because i don't know him and it would be awkward but he's not doing anything either. Does this mean he might not like me? Help with all my questions please.

Maybe you should get to know them well before you tell them you like them, because that way, you can see if he is interested in you and so when you tell him, you won't be so hurt, and, that way, it doesn't make you look weird, by just liking someone without even knowing them, you know?! So get to know the guy and then tell him your feelings. Don't be disappointed if some guys don't talk to you or approach you, there is someone there who really likes you, you just have to open your eyes and look a little harder, he most probably is right before you. So if some guys don't want to talk to you, so what?! Go talk to others, be social, that is the easiest way to get guys to approach you, it makes you look approachable, rather than, unapproachable!

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