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14/F

Alrighty, well... My friend and I were talking on IM about lacy panties for some reason. And I told her that they were pointless. Who's gonna see them anyway unless you go around flashing people? Well, she said maybe your bf or husband may wanna see them soon. I thought that was yucky. Well, as the conversation ended, it made me think about my body. My butt is like, huge. It's from sitting from front of a computer for the past two years. 0o; Well, that and my face has a lot of blemishes from scars and pimples. Then, my hair feels like a mop that you put out in the sun to dry. -.- Well, I told my friend that my body wasn't built for that stuff. She offered a make over, but it scared me so I denied, but secretly I wouldn't mind. I mean, looks aren't as important to me as computer time, but... Now it's bothering me. I know that if I ever wore those lacy kinky panties or any lolita, that I would probably even scare the devil away! >< Does anybody know what I can do to change this? Something simple? I must tell you that I am VERY lazy and... I am in love with the computer. -.- I practically worship it... So... I'm begging for help here, please! ToT
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I think you should ask your friend if she could do the makeover. You should defiantly go for it! You just might like the end result and find some postive things about yourself. Not everybody is confortable with themselves, but sometimes a little makeup or something can actually make you smile. I'm not suggesting sexy lacy underwear, but maybe go out with a friend and buy some accessories, or clothes [or underwear if you want] & get a second opinion. Sometimes all we need is a little push or budge from a friend. Don't think about the things you cant wear or dont look good in, think about the things you do look good in and expand in that. Let a friend do a few differnet looks on you. If you like the computer you like the computer - just when you go out and about - make the effort to look different -you'll feel like a new you! & So what if you have scars and blemishes. Most teenage girls go through spots and stuff. Anyone who can't see that are pathetic. And one last thing, having a big bum is a plus! A lot of people find that attractive! So go on , take a chance and do the make over - what have you got to lose!? Hope I helped

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(Rating: 5) Thank you so much! That helps a lot! ^^
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