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this might sound really stupid but how do you know when your in love? i really really really like my boyfriend but i wouldn't wanna say i love you if i didnt mean it...thing is, we've only been dating for like 3 weeks, for anyone in a relationship how long did it take before you said 'i love you' please dont tell me "you'll know when your in love" cause that doesnt really help...tell me anything about your relationships...thankss.

In the past I have had 2 serious relationships.

1. Alec- We dated for about a year and 2 months. I didn't really fall in love with Alec for a while. Maybe about 8 months in. It was awhile, but he loved me long before. I said I did but I know I didn't. Our relationship was nice, he loved everything about me and I admired him, but I knew that it wasn't a strong kind of love, it was the kind you feel about someone you have known for a long time and that you know you love them, but you can't really feel it.

2. Talon- I have been dating him for a little over 3 years now. We had been childhood friends, ever since I was born, but after my parents died and I was adopted, I hadn't seen him. I was 14 when he had moved into the town I had lived in ( we didn't know). I was dating Alec at the time and Talon was the reason that relationship ended. Later after I was 15 1/2 ish, Talon and I had met up again for months as close again....It might have been a month before I knew I loved him or earlier...You know when you love someone. I love Talon so deeply it felt like something was pulling me from the inside. I would just get a feeling of completeness and an indescribable feeling, because there wasn't really a word to describe it. I have been with him ever since.

Each relationship is different. There are different ways to love and I don't think that there is really a "too early" to be in love, but that depends on how well you know the guy. If you have just known him for 3 weeks, then yeah maybe...

You will feel it and don't worry about saying it because when you are in love you won't have to think when you say it, it will just be like breathing...natural, not well thought out.

~*~Trinity~*~

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