I'm Kathryn but most call me KD. I'm a 16 year old sophomore. I'm rare to come by seeing that I try to solve everything I can for others before myself. I am very honest and I don't lie to make anything seem not as bad as it honestly is. I give suggestions that I myself would do if it were in my case.
I may ask for help or someone's opinion on a personal matter but don't feel bad if I do more for you than you do for me. I don't let people in. My words should tell you exactly what kind of person I am without a picture to second guess.
I'm the type of person who will fall so someone else can stand. I won't stop helping people until the day I die because I know what it is like to be in need of something and no one is there for you.
Don't ever be afraid to send me a message even if it isn't serious. There is only one kid of help to me. The kind that is given at all.
If you can't find me, I'll be walking in the door when the rest of the world walks out.
If you have a very serious matter that you wish to contact me about URGENTLY, then you may use my AIM screen name to reach me or my MySpace. I appreciate feedback to know if my advice helped at all.
Thank you,
-KD
Gender: Female
Location: South Lyon, MI
Occupation: High School Student
Age: 15
AIM: HeartedASHollow
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My exboyfriend and I were in a very close relationship. I thought it was perfect. Seriously. Long story short, he eventually told me that he wanted a break. When I changed my status on myspace to "Single" a week later, he told me that he was shocked that I did that.
That happened a month ago. I still love him so much. I miss him. I haven't seen him since he told me he wanted a break. I want to get together and talk to him, and tell him how much of a mistake I think the break was. We were so close. I thought he loved me.
Should I ask him to meet me somewhere? If yes, what do I say? I love him. (link)
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Well if he wants to come back, he will. And if he does, saying "I love you" will make him want to walk away or run because of all the things you made him think about in that amount of time between the break up and the moment you saw him you began to talk.
I would give it time but other than that I would move on. I would consider it a lesson: that you need to think about things more clearly before giving them up without realization for what it is exactly that you're doing. Like changing you're status while you're on a break would probably make anyone cry because you're not giving it a chance and you're just rushing it to the end.
I'm not saying you did anything wrong. You just didn't wait long enough to see how it would all work out.
But I wouldn't dwell on it. You have you're life ahead of you.
-KD/f/15
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