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Hmm, about myself. Well, I'm sixteen years young and for my young age I've been through quite a lot. I can relate to many different people. Giving advice is one of three things I'm very good at. I'm a Junior in high school and i love being with people. I'm the drum major at my high school for marching band, and a starter on our varsity softball team. I hope to be a psychologist when I'm older, so I really enjoy giving advice. Ask me anything and i'll do my best to help :)
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I always hear from people that high school is supposed to be the best time of your life. That this is the time when you find yourself. Well, I haven't exactly found myself yet, which is alright I suppose since I'm just going into sophomore year.
But I am a little worried. I've reached a point due to a horrible first year of high school where I just don't care about who likes me or if I have friends.
Basically the only thing I'm counting on to get me through this hellhole called school is that college, marriage, and kids will be better.
But I just don't want to regret twenty years down the road that my high school experience sucked. Then what do I tell my kids? "Oh yes don't worry! You'll be fine in high school!"
I hear my parents tell me stories about how their high school years were and I sort of feel like a failure at life.

So my question is, is high school really the best time of your life? Are there any adults that could maybe share what they thought were the best years? (And I'm NOT going to rate you low if you tell me that yes, high school is the best. I want honesty and I can take it.)
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Well, I personally believe that they aren't the best years of your life. I'm going into my junior year of high school, and quite frankly, i'm glad i'm almost done.
I think the best years of school are always going to be K through third. Those were mine. But ones that you'll really remember, will probably be college.
A lot of stuff that happens in high school you may not remember. For example, "Oh my god you'll never guess what so and so did."
A lot of high school is like that. Though, a lot of high school you will remember. Like if you were in a sport, you'll remember your team and the people who leave you and who you leave. If you're in the band. They all can become like family.
But, majority of the time you don't stay friends with them after high school is over. More people usually stay friends with their college friends.
And twenty years from now when you're kids ask about high school, tell them the truth. Say that you didn't have the best high school experience, but they might.
I will say that high school is about taking chances. Tell them that. And remind yourself that. Maybe you will find yourself,just take some chances.


Rating: 5
Lol thanks. I loved K through third haha. =]




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