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I have been with this guy for five yrs now and we have a son who will be three soon.There are many things about him that have just changed in the past four years and I'm only with him now for our son.I know I love him because he is my sons father and for the time we have been together but I'm just not in love with him. he has disappointed me so much.All the promises he made...he didn't accomplish not even one. He doesn't give me enough attention or time and he's just all about himself and not even since he has no car now and a sucky job so he isn't doing anything for himself anyways the list goes on and on....i have tried leaving him plenty of times but he just won't accept it even before I got pregnant and now it doesn't feel right trying to leave the father of my son. it doesn't feel right trying to look at anyone other than him for comfort but what should I do if I'm not happy by his side anymore? should I just keep sucking it up for my sons sake or try to move on and try to find love and happiness?? would that be selfish on my part? this is something that just kills me. I'm so confused and have mixed emotions because I also feel like it would be hard starting another relatinship now that I have a son, many guys don't want anuthing serious with women that already have children. and I want to get married and not have to date around...I'm 23 he is 26.please I would love to get some different opinions and just weigh out my pros and cons to conclude this dilema. thamks to all who respond.
My mom did that too. She stayed with my dad for 11 years for my brother and I. Frankly, I hate it when parent use that as an excuse, cause it makes you feel like, "Geeez, thanks. So it's all MY fault you were miserable all those years." I'm glad my parents divorced. My mom's happier, and my dad's a jerk. When we lived together we were ALL unhappy. If you really wanted to leave, you would have done so by now, cause no being can force you to do ANYTHING. Yet as a mother, you probably feel inclined to make your son happy first, which is good, except, he's only 2 years old. He knows nothing about nothing at this point, and what's best for you, is best for him. We all understand why you do what you do at some point. We wanna see our mothers happy too. But that's just from a daughter's perspective
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thanx that insight was very helpful
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