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HI!!im caramella,id love to give advice for those who need it.You might not always like my answers but i dont care about ratings,cuz if i tell you something you want to hear all the time,and i get rated high and you end up making a big mistake,rating aint gonna solve the problem then.I want to tell you guys to think before you act and look before you leap in order not to make misttakes,if you have made mistakes NEVER regret it,regrets are a waste of time and happiness and wont change what happened,BUT it will give you expereince and teach you not to do it again and refine your future^_^regret over wasted time is more wasted time.


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practically all my friends are sexually active and im not, ive never had sex. but i dont feel like i really fit in, unless i change my mind set to their perverted minds. like i have to act and talk like them to fit in. but im against that kind of stuff with my beliefs and stuff. so what do i do, continue being friends with those kind of people or make friends who are a little more pg? but its only adultry that im against and almost everyone in highschool talks about who they did, and im just a virgin :/ (link)
Stick to your beliefs,i respect that youve done that for so long^_^ Havent you noticed that most high school drama and rumors are about sex?Why should you get caught up in this shit?Youll never be truely happy doing something just to fit in.I think you should make other freinds that are more like you because when you make freinds that share the same beliefs as you,you wont be afraid to be yourself and say what you TRUELY think!When your around people that are different,you sometimes try to change your point of veiw on things so it can match theirs!This is a big problem it will only confuse you about who you are and what you truely think.
be yourself and dont change yourself just to fit in cuz havent you ever wonderd like if you leave high school and go to college and the people there think differently..will you change the way you are AGAIN just to fit in there?
think about that^_^


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thanks, that helps alot :)




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