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Okay, I was dating this guy who I was with for two years (we're not together anymore).

I lost my virginity to him, but honestly I didn't enjoy having sex with him.

I'm trying to make this as clean as possible, because I really don't want to break the rules, but I need help.

Anyway, he would want to do it all the time, but if I said I didn't feel like it, he'd tell me to stop being selfish and that sometimes you have to put your feelings aside for the one you love.

So, sometimes I'd give in, but sometimes I'd keep saying no, and he'd as if he could just "put it in" once so he could go and take care of it himself or something. Sometimes I'd let him, sometimes I wouldn't.

But one time when I did let him, he didn't just do it once, so I told him to stop, and he didn't. So I kept telling him to stop and eventually I was crying and he held my arms down so I couldn't fight him until he came...

Now he's trying to say it wasn't rape because I willingly let him put it in, and he tried to say I liked it, which I swear I didn't. I was crying the whole time.

I know it's probably a stupid question, and I'm not planning on going to the police or anything because it happened about a year ago, I just need to know for my own sake if that would be considered rape or not.

Thanks.

Yes sweetie it was rape. Im very sorry you had to go through that. from personal experience i know how scary something like that can be. now you dont have to go to the police (though you totally could if you feel it neccessary or think hes going to go harm more girls) but i really suggest talking to a counselor about it to make sure your ok and to help you. you may think that its done with and that it happened a year ago but those things can harm a woman for years if she doesnt deal with it. please get some help and im sorry he hurt you like that. you are so much better than that and worth so much more. and please please dont think it was your fault.
hope i helped :)
♥ HiChick

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(Rating: 5) Thank you so much. You're really sweet. My mom's been trying to get me to talk to a counselor, so I probably will soon.

Thanks again.
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