Hi everyone!
My name is Alexandra!
But my nickname's Aly. And as you can see I love the color pink hehehe i really do.(but you probably don't care) so anyways I'm here to help out anyone with their questions, concerns, etc..
So ask me! And if I know i'll be more than happy to answer!
lots of love
Aly~
Gender: Female Age: 14 Member Since: July 28, 2008 Answers: 44 Last Update: July 30, 2008 Visitors: 4027
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ok well ive been talking to this guy for a while now and he lives far away so i could never date him or anything but he was visiting his friend who lives near me so i met him. anyway we had phone sex like through txting and i want to stay a virgin and stuff so is that like bad?? like is it against God and i know i really shouldnt but idk could it have to do with craving guy attention? but hes sincere and isnt just talking to me to talk about sexual things but still..and also when a girl does that she can grow emotional attachments which is what im worried i will do..i kno this is a weird question but please help!! ive never even been fingered or anything but tonight i had phone sex! (link)
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Hi!!!
well seems to me like you're feeling guilty, because you think it's against God... Well phone sex it's actually masturbation while talking blah blah blah... First of masturbation is a sin (It is) because when you masturbate you lust... so practically yeah phone sex isn't good... but don't worry, i'm a christian and we are not perfect... just pray and ask for forgiveness and God will forgive you... as for not doing it again just stay away from talking about stuff that could lead to that... anyways about the emotional attachment, if you think you will, then just stop talking to him or have in your mind he can just be a friend... oh and look for a guy that lives close to you hehehe...
hope it works out
toodles
Alexandra~
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thanks so much! that is great advice!! :)
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