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Q: 16/f

ok. so there is this guy named jeffrey and he and i have been on and off liking each other for over two years. we would talk, become really good friends and usually ending up making out or something then we would just stop talking and eventually he would call me again and the process would repeat. so we stated talking again in march and in may he ended up taking my virginity. he knew i was a virgin and he was reallly sweet about it. well he just graduated and he drinks all the time and does some drugs. and we arnt talking. i hevnt talked to him in a month or so and im really upset because i feel used. i know he didnt use me because he is too sweet and i know he cares about me but im still so hurt and depressed. what should i do?

Try to get some important figures in Jeffrey's life together for an intervention.

Or if he insists on his new lifestyle, let him go. No good things are going to happen if you stay around a self destructive person. You're only going to end up feeling more used.

So try to help him out of his habits. And if that doesn't work, then just leave him.

cheers,
stargirl

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