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Q: Okay, so im going to have my first time in august with my boyfriend. I just have a few sex questions.

its pretty much impossibal to get preg. if you use a condom right?

does it hurt the first time?

can i have sex without birth control?

My periods are usually unusual, so im going to be scared if my period comes late [it usually always does] so how will i know if im preg. or not?

how do you use a preg test? im going to use one just incase.

are you sore in the morning?


anything else i need to know?
thank you :] and im 15 1/2 female. Please don't tell me that its stupid and im too young because i really love my boyfriend
1) Condom is one of the BEST birth control methods out there. Prevents STDs as well as pregnancies. Make sure there isn't a rip and use a brand that's trustworthy. In this case, name brand does actually count. Make sure your boyfriend knows what size condom fits him best. yeah, i know it sounds funny but trust me. The wrong fitting condom can lead to strange consequences.

2) I guess it varies between women. For some, it hurts like no other pain on earth. For others, it feels more like an indian burn. The best way to ensure the least amount of pain is to relax. And foreplay is definitely a time to get you nice and relaxed.

3) After two weeks or so, you can take a pregnancy test if you're THAT worried. If you're using a condom and it didn't rip or leak, you should be fine.

4) Buy pregnancy test at your local drug store. Pee on the stick. Wait for a minute for results. The instructions are right there on the box. So you'll be able to be guided through it.

5) More likely than not, you are gonna be sore. if not uncomfortable.

Spend time getting to know each other's bodies before you do the deed during foreplay. Explore. Learn what you like and not like. Do you like to be touched there? Does he like it when you kiss there? stuff like that. If you don't feel comfortable or have second thoughts, tell him. Don't worry about him doing whatever. Don't do it because he wants to.

I've got to admit, you are a bit young. But it's not stupid to want to explore your sexuality AS LONG AS you're doing it safely.

cheers,
stargirl

you put effort into your response! if i have any questions ill certainly ask you :]] thank you so much!

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