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Me and my bf of 6 months broke up about a wk and a half ago. i dumped him because he told my friend he was gonna hook up with other girls bhind my back while we were on a break. i was really angry becuz he told me he would never hurt me and all this stuff about he loved me etc. the other day (i told) my friend to tell him how she feels because of what he did and he got really angry and sed he wuldnt talk to me or her nemore and now he put up a quote on myspace saying something like ya i cheated but its because i didnt get what i wanted from it. im pretty sure its because i didnt have sex with him because i didnt want it. he also put some on his page bragging that hes single. he is acting so immature i didnt do nething to the kid but be honest about how much i though what he did was wrong. do i deserve this? it jus really makes me angry i trusted him so much and he has treated me like crap! i dont know what to do...i want to honestly go and kick his ass...any advice?
You're right - what he did was immature.
Did you talk to him about it before you broke up with him? He could've just said that to you're friend and not meant it. and not even meant it. Try talking to him about it. Don't yell at him, and don't go 'kick his ass.' That won't do any good at all. Just call him or something and calmly ask if he meant what he said.
And with the quote he put up - I don't get it. Did he actually cheat on you, or not? If he did, I guess you could give him another chance if the of you talk about it, if he apologizes, and if you feel like he deserves a second chance.
Also, he's probably just bragging about being single to try and make you jealous - don't let it get to you. Ignore it.
Think about this though: if what he's doing is making you angry, then you still have feelings for him. And if he's trying to make you jealous or whatever, then he obviously still has feelings for you too.
If the two of you still care, don't throw the relationship away. I personally think you should talk to him and if he apologizes or explains, give the guy another chance.
But if you think you would be better off without him, then that's fine.
It's your decision. :)
'Fate determines who walks into your life.
It's up to you to determine who you let walk away, and who you let stay.'
Goodluck.
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EDIT:
Yes, that's a good idea. :)
That's a much more mature way to handle the situation compared to what your ex is doing.
(Rating: 3) thanks but i did talk to him about it b4 we broke up and he was speechless so obviously it was true...i think im jus gonna be the bigger person and ignore him do u think thats a good idea?