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Hey,my name is Amanda aka Mandy,and im 16. Like most teen girls ive had my fare share of boyfriends, break ups, friend, health, and family issues. I guesse you can say ive been throught the whole teen drama. Il Try my best to give good advice!
E-mail: xox_mandy_16@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Oshawa, Ontario
Occupation: ...Student....
Age: 16
Member Since: July 10, 2006
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I know everything happens for a reason but i honestly am so confused about this...

There was this guy last year named CJ and he was dating someone named Julia and i didnt want to start any drama but i really liked him and from what i could tell and what i heard he like me too. He always flirted with me and stared at me. At his graduation, he stared at me. Not his girlfriend. And because of myself not wanting any drama i kept my feelings private.
-Is this wrong???

Now all i do is think about what a chance i had, and why did I have to screw it up?? Saying i regret it is an understatement. But sometimes i see him driving down my street. Every time he sees me he just stops and stares, even when he is with her. But he is leaving for college in august and is going to have a new life.
-What should i do??? (link)
I've gone through this many times. For some reason i find my self beeing the nice girl, like you.
But i also find myself wondering what if i spoke up?
My advice, dont let yourself wonder. Tell him how you feel, but in a "take it or leave it" way. You dont want to force him into anything or make things hard for him seeing as he already has a gf. Just let your feelings be known. Like getting it off you chest. Then the rest is up to him. If he acts on it good. If not, there's someone better out there waiting for ya.
Hope this helps. Good luck.


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