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Call me scooter. No, it isn't my real name, but I like the idea of having a secret name. Most of the people who have professional advice columns don't use their real names, so I don't see why I should either. I want to give the best advice possible, and I figure that the first way of becoming professional is to act professional. That isn't to say that I plan on growing up to be an advice columnist. Actually, I want to be a psychologist. But, this is as close as I'm going to get to that right about now. I'm also a very good writer, so I figure writing an advice column is a good way of getting my ideas out there. Please feel free to ask me any questions you like.
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I met this guy when i was 14 ... and i lost my virginity to him. We lasted almost 3 years, but as time went on things went sour. We argued alot, and i did some bad things. Now i'm talking to this guy again, i must admit i was truly in love with him. And i still think about him time to time, the feeling i get is undescribable. Anyways, i broke up with him because i (thought) i lost my feelings for him, but after a couple months ... i noticed i just wasn't happy nomatter who i was dating at the time. I recently met this guy, he just got out of prison not to long ago. Right from the get go he said he loved me. And he wanted a relationship and so on. Need i remind you he doesn't have a car, he JUST got a job, and we argue over the littlest things, and i'm being honest when i say i don't start the arguments. He gets mad when i even look at a guy, and most the time makes a big deal out of it. He also asks me "why" i put on makeup which isn't very often. Hes so scared hes gunna loose me to someone else, and he talks about my exs more than i do. I really want things to work with us, but i miss my ex too :/ Me and this guy argue so much, even more than my ex did. And i'm doing everything to just have a healthy relationship. He also doesnt let me talk to anyone on the phone, and he knows that i don't talk to anyone yet he still asks me "who'd you talk to today" when he comes home. This guy is also 23. He told me he didnt have a kid, but i recently "heard" this girl (heather) had a baby and has pictures of him on her myspace... that by the way i have not yet seen. I'm torn between the two. Please help me in any way shape or form
x - thuglove
This new guy sounds a bit sketchy, to be honest. It sounds like he isn't always truthful with you. If you are going to stay with him, I suggest you keep honesty as the focal point of your efforts within the relationship. You guys really need to be more open with each other.
As far as your ex goes, if you want to be with him, why not? Have you talked to him about it? Find out if he feels the same way.
Good luck with whoever you pick.
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yes my ex wants to be with me, its just so hard to choose which one i wanna be with. My ex has a good life going for him, and the other guy doesn't. Seems like to me i'm being blind, i'm just scared for the other guy to find someone else.... i guess u can say i want them both. This is so hard but i appreciate your help and honesty. :) Take care
Kayla
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