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1) A love relationship is a TWO way thing, you BOTH have to be on the SAME page.. Communication is vital. FACT.
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3) Believe in yourself, if you start to, everyone else will. So focus on the good things, because that is what you will naturally flaunt.. Which makes everyone focus on the good things! TRUTH.
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sorry if this ends up being long..

a couple months ago, i met this guy at my friend's party. we talked a lot while we were there, and texted and talked on the phone and over myspace a lot. then we started hanging out. we'd kiss and make out and whatever, but i didn't want to go farther, because i've only known him for like a month and a half, and we weren't together. then we were hung out on the fourth of july and kissed, and were just cute together. then the next day i looked at his myspace, and he was with someone. i was so hurt, because by the things he said to me, i really thought we would go somewhere. now, he kind of did have a reputation as a "player" but it really didn't seem like he was. now he's still with this girl, but he texts me all the time, and tells me he loves me, and gets mad when i don't say it back. we're hanging out tomorrow, and i don't want to do anything with him, but i still have really strong feelings. my question is, is he just using me as an in between girl, of do you think he has real feelings for me?
any advice on what to do in this situation would really help,
thanks.
i'm 15/female.

He could be just using you, I urge you to talk to him and make everything in the open, ask him what is going on, and things that you don't feel comfortable about. Ask him about the girl he's supposedly with on myspace and see what he says. Tell him you know about his reputation as a 'player', that will make him a bit more open.

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