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Call me scooter. No, it isn't my real name, but I like the idea of having a secret name. Most of the people who have professional advice columns don't use their real names, so I don't see why I should either. I want to give the best advice possible, and I figure that the first way of becoming professional is to act professional. That isn't to say that I plan on growing up to be an advice columnist. Actually, I want to be a psychologist. But, this is as close as I'm going to get to that right about now. I'm also a very good writer, so I figure writing an advice column is a good way of getting my ideas out there. Please feel free to ask me any questions you like.
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mmk. So I was with this guy for maybe 8 months? Okay. Well we were really close and he had told me that he loved me, and that it would never change. Then all of a sudden he just disappeared off the face of the Earth. He was gone for about 3-4 months. And I never received any notice that our relationship had ended, but when he came back, he wouldn't talk to me and he ignored me. Then finally one day. Oh and I hadn't ever tried to talk to him when he came back, because I was nervous. But one day he decided to talk to me, and it was just like it used to be. But then he refused to talk to me after that. I have no idea what's going on. He still hasn't told me it's over. Although I assume it is, for obvious reasons. But it's like he's holding back and I don't know why. Then not too long ago he told me that he 'forgot that he ever loved me'. Can you forget that? What's his problem? And should I just ignore him right back? I haven't made any move to speak to him again, because he hurt me so bad.
I'm just terribly confused and any advice on what's happening would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you.
This guy sounds either extremely confused or extremely selfish or both. My guess is both, since no one who isn't confused tells someone they love them and then "forgets" and no one who isn't selfish completely ditches someone they say they love. My advice would not be to ignore him, it would be to tell him you think he's being a jerk. Let him know how you feel. If things turn around, then you know he's a good guy. If nothing changes even after he hears of your feelings, you aren't losing out on much - he only cares about himself.
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You're really right. I told him that he was a total tool, and he didn't say anything or apologize. He's a selfish pig. Just like most men :b
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