I am a father of three, girl, boy, girl, all are now over 18. I have been married for 29 years as of 6-30-07, so yes, if you do the math I was married at 18, just after graduating high school. I am very aware of the pit falls of doing so, but we made it through the really tough times. I came to this site, because of my daughter, she also uses the site.
I am an author and have written three books, only one under this name, but it is not how I make my living. I am in business, working full time and I have a seasonal business in ponds, selling Koi, goldfish, water plants and supplies. I help people to plan and build ponds, as well as, maintenance if they need it.
I am not here for the ratings and could careless what you rate me. I will tell you things I know, I will tell you what you don't want to hear, but most of all, I will tell you things from my perspective. I have experienced a lot in my life, I have not lived with my head in the sand and I'm a realist, you want someone to blow smoke up your as*, don't read my writings, (I don't do fairy tales).
I am not so foolish as to think I am always right, I can only tell you what I know and give you something to think about. It is up to you to find out if I'm right or not.
Life is complicated, because people are complicated and one answer does not necessarily fit all, but that doesn't mean you should not consider what I say as a possibility.
Feel free to write me personally if you wish, there is only so much you can say in such a restrictive environment as this site is, it doesn't allow for proper conversation.
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E-mail: gibber@cableone.net
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ok i am gettin EXTREMELY annoyed with my freinds freinds putting me down all the time, since i have started working with them all in a shop all they'v proceeded to do is demise my intelligence and throw ideas at me like "well if he did that it would destroy the county" and other stupid things liek that, it normally doesnt annoy me but i dont see any of us leaving any time soon so i need a way around it. the key points of them i want to block out is thier annoying *omfg your such an idiot* attitude towards me because i dont see them doing it to any of their other freinds. i may not be the most skilled to apply to thier oh so high list of needs but they dont see what psycological hate i am growing for them. any advice on these pathetic lowlifes would be much much appreciated cause im gonna end up beating the living **** out of them (link)
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I will tell you a hard and fast rule. Never make friends with the people you work with and never work with friends. Be friendly, but don't take the relationship outside of work. There is all kinds of problems with that and your just starting to find them out. You are experiencing the dog pack mentality, they must show their dominance over you, so be a good puppy and go lay down by your dish.
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"so be a good puppy and go lay down by your dish" This was not directed at you by me, it is in reference to what they are telling you to do, just not in those words. I'm glad to see it had my desired effect on you, it was meant to grab your attention and ruffle your fur, but direct your anger towards the ones you should be directing it at, the ones that you should be standing up too. Now that you've shown me your a man, show them.
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be a good and lay down by my dish? the answer was great right up untill that part, im gonna stand up to the dicks and i Will kick thier arses wether i get fired or not
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