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Okay. first off I'll give you the basic details of our relationship.
Levi and I have been together for 2 years.
He's 18 and I'll be 18 in 2 weeks. We've had a bit of a rocky relationship but we love eachother. He's an Aquarius: extremely independent and seems to have no emotions sometimes. I'm a Cancer: extremely caring and loving, but can be needy.
I dropped out of highschool so his Mom doesn't like me. His cousin Blake doesn't like me because it's always a fight between us to get Levi's attention.
Okay. So here's my problem. I've been really down lately. I'm stressed out with my family because it seems like we're always fighting. I'm stressed out because of relationship problems. I just need a hug and Levi's not there for me at all....
A couple of days ago was our 2 year anniversary of the night we met. He was a friend of a friend and they came over to my house and we all went down the road to the cemetery. So for our anniversary I had planned that we go to the cemetery. We haven't been there since that night and I thought it would be special. So that night he didn't have a ride down here. He told me it didn't mean that much to him to ask his Dad to drive him all the way to my house after his Dad got off work.
We didn't hang out that night. But later, his cousin Blake showed up at his house and asked him to go with him to a party and Levi said no because it was our anniversary [Levi wouldn't have seen anything wrong with it but he knew I would be upset if he didn't at least talk to me on the phone that night] So Blake and Levi got into a fight about it. Levi blames me.
The next day I asked Levi if we could spend tonight [the 4th of July] together. We would go up to my secret place [it's really high] and watch the fireworks that are downtown. He told me that he and Blake were going to go out of town Thursday and would be back Sunday. They were going to a lake. So thursday night Levi was online and he told me one of the guys there was leaving Friday morning to come back into town. I asked him if he would take that ride back so that he and I could spend the 4th together. He said no. He wanted to spend the weekend there too... Not only did he say this, he freaked out on me. I only wanted to spend the day with him and he says I'm going to ruin his "REAL fun." He's calling me selfish. I don't understand this. He posted this... "apparently I can't spend the 4th of July weekend with my friends without being made to feel like shit as usual for trying to have some REAL fun on my own."
I really don't understand.
I was really sad and depressed for a couple of days before he left and he was never there for me. At least, not when his cousin is around. I mean, about a week ago I called Levi because I was fighting with my Mom and Brother and I needed someone to talk to. He was about to leave with his cousin to go on a walk and get some food. He tells me to suck it up and he'd call me when Blake and him were done hanging out. That night he calls me and immediately starts raising his voice saying that it's always a fight between Blake and I.
I'm like "I didn't start anything with Blake. I'm always very polite to him and he's just rude to me.. it's not my fault." that's the honest-to-god truth.
But Levi's so.. "blood is thicker than water" that he goes to such extremes as to give me all the blame for a fight that his mom or his cousin started and were completely out of line.
He's leaving for college in a couple of months and we're all fighting for his attention. But his family means so much more to him that they're getting a really unfair amount of his attention.
So... I don't really have a direct question... I just want to know... What should I say to him tonight when I talk to him? Or... should I just not talk to him at all?
Sorry it was so long. Thank you so much for your advice.
And if you would, please send your advice to my email? That way I'll get it soon, when I need it.
DivinelyBroken17@aol.com
thank you so much!
~Jessica (link)
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-EDIT-
I've randomly decided to go through all my answers and re-found yours, also read the edit.
This little boy, is immature beyond belief.
How long ago was this question?
According to my original answer I was about to turn fourteen. I'm fifteen now so about a year+
Anyway. I honestly hoped you dumbed his ass. If he has the nerve to swear at a woman like that, he has no manners and no respect at all.
Message me the details of what happened if its okay with you. I'd love to hear how things turned out
-END EDIT-
I would sent this to your email but I don't feel comfy doing that
=]
I'm 13 gonna be 14 in a month
Even I'M smart enough to realize
This CHILD isnt ready for any REAL relationships.
He's ignorant and HE'S selfish.
You need and shoulder to cry on and hes out partying it up with friends.
Some boyfriend.
I'm not you. but IF I were you, I would send him to the curb
I'd break up with him
If he can't be there to support you and comfort you and make you feel loved when you need it NOW..he's NEVER gonna be there
I feel for you and my heart goes out to you
Hope I could help in anyway
KlutzyKim
13/F
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hey thank u very much 4 ur advice..... u make a very good point. i think i'll talk 2 him about it. we've been together too long to just dump him like that. but i'll defenitely talk to him. thanks again. =]
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