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my boyfriend and i have been going out for almost six months. and i still love him. but he never calls. he never texts. he never emails. and he never offers to hang out. its always me who calls first. and its hard for me. like the other day, i was talking to him, and he's like, "sorry i havent called you in a while, ive been really busy." and i was like, "oh ok, well what have you been up to?" and he goes, "oh nothing." so i was kind of upset that he didnt even come up with an excuse. he always says, "i really love you!" or, "i love you so much" but he doesnt PROVE it. i love him, but i cant keep doing this. i am his first girlfriend, and, even though i cant wait to get over him, i dont want to crush him. so how do i break up with him? i was thinking about doing it over the phone, but is that wrong? i dont think that would be a good way to do it. if i do it in person, what do i say? where should i go to break up with him? i really need help.PLEASE help me!!
You are his first girlfriend, he's probably nervous and stressed out. He probably has no idea what to do. Have you even talked to him about this? You need to let him know how you feel and that he needs to call you or at least do something first. You need to know what's going on with his life. Just take the time to find out what as going on and if it's just a lame excuse, just dump him. In person, text, email or on the phone. But really, if he said 'nothing' then it must be something. Maybe he's going through something at home? It sounds like you need more communication. Do you always start conversations? [emails, texts, etc?] It really depends on how much you do it and if he's a shy person.
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