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Just a couple of things which everyone should know..
1) A love relationship is a TWO way thing, you BOTH have to be on the SAME page.. Communication is vital. FACT.
2) You don't need negative people in your life to bring you down, you get enough of that as it is. You need positive people, to raise you higher.. FACT.
3) Believe in yourself, if you start to, everyone else will. So focus on the good things, because that is what you will naturally flaunt.. Which makes everyone focus on the good things! TRUTH.
4) You only live once, so don't screw it up! Make the most of this ONE life! FACT.
5) Life's all about making mistakes, forgiving, letting go, falling in love, making friends, and best of all, LAUGHING OUT LOUD!! ;) Laughter IS the best medicine.. Trust me! ;) FACT.

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so ive never had a boyfriend. and my parents are really into the whole christianity goody good thing. [not to offend anyone. its jsut that they look at everything in that perspective].
so this guy told me he likes me.
and i think i like him, too. but hes not exactly what my parents good classify as "they guy for me" hes a good kid, sweet kind etc. anyways. the problem is that i am not really personal with my parents. we dont talk about boys or periods or anything like that unless i absoulutely have to. so if i start going out with this guy, how can i tell my parents without them freaking out?
how should i start the convo? etc.

Well you can start with the usual, "Can I ask you guys something?" Or the, "When is it the right age to get a boyfriend?", Or, start with a hypothetical question/situation, like "What would you say/do if I got a boyfriend, or wanted one?" That way you can see what their response is without being attacked and lectured on religion. Talk to your mom first, because you're a girl, most moms like a good relationship with their daughters. So just ask and talk to her openly about it, be hypothetical if you're worried.

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