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Ok, well i myself have been in this kind of relationship. but, the thing with me was i realized that we were just very good friends-all those mixed feelings and flirting were never going to change or go away, they just weren't going to be pursued. you also have to take into account how often you do see him, and if anything were to happen, who would be affected by it.
Getting hurt is never a good thing, but getting hurt can also make you realize what you have lost. Sometimes it is not the relationship or the liking between you two that you lost, but the friendship. And maybe the getting hurt is a good thing because if you have tried it before and it hasn't worked out, maybe it wont in the future. you may have good chemistry and look cute together and some people might take those risks and want to try again, but others might just accept that it hasn't worked out and it will not.
There might be friends who have mixed feelings about the situation, thinking it is cute, but then upset about the outcome. they have to realize that the people in the relationship do not intentionally mean to be unfair to the other partner, but they are just basing their actions off their feelings. and sometimes their feelings can lead to unclear actions,and it just does not feel right.
well i hope i have helped you and cleared some things up.
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