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I'm Em.

I'm a 20 year old English/History student living in Sydney.

I dig art, music and books.

I'll take questions on relationships, friendships, high school, uni, or whatever else.



I try to give the best advice I can, usually drawing on my own personal experience. But I'm not perfect, and sometimes when I look back on some of my advice it's far from it (especially when I was 15 and writing LiKe THiS). It's just advice, though. It's not an answer or a solution, it's simply a potentially helpful perspective. And that's all I can offer you.







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Castellane Gallery, New York.

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so ill start from the beginning. i was at lunch upstairs with mii friends, because itsz pretty boring in the lunchroom. so i wrote on the board, just something random and true but still random and not pointed at any particular person. so then im dont and admiring mii graffiti. veronica comes up to me and asks me whos password i new...i told her the truth...i was dumb to. i told her i knew her password, thinking she trusts me enough not to hack into it and all, and i dont. so then shes like ok wat is it. i tell her and shes just pushing me into the wall but i didnt fight bak because it wouldnt do any good. she tried to make me tell her who told me, but the person who told me her password(dont mistake her, shes mii best friend, the bestest friend i ever had, which is a true friend)told me not to tell and i wouldnt have told anyways if she didnt tell me not to cuz i would get her into trouble. itsz mii fault that i told her the truth, and i dont want nobody else taking up all of it 4 me. so yea...i dont know what to do. please help! also tell me your opinion on what you think, do i deserve this? i know i didnt do the right thing, but i wouldnt lie. please tell me what to do! i rate high if u gimme good advice! well, the lowest would be a 3. (link)
In everyones life, we do little stupid things that at the time seem insignificant, but after the implications, we realise how bad they were.

Writing something random on the board about knowing someones password seems like you were actually asking for this person to confront you and like you wanted them to know you knew.

Writing that on the board drew attention to you and Veronica acted in the way she did because of it.

Its not your fault she used some sort of physical force against you but causing trouble was created from you writing on the board in the first place.

its not the fact that you told your friend the truth, its that you somewhat provoked the situation.

It was just a rediculous thing to write something so stupid on the board, when it would most likely draw attention to the fact you knew someones password and that it wouldnt cause a problem, especially when your best friend swore you to secrecy.

Next time, i suggest you think about your actions before performing them.

I also suggest that you apologise to this Veronica girl.


Rating: 4
thankx...well at lest this is actually advice.




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