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Hi! My name is Kayla.. I'm 21. Through out life, I've had quite a bit of rocky roads and difficult dilemmas. They sucked at the time, but now I've become a call for help.I do it because I enjoy it.
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Hey. my name is Amber.
and i have a problem with a guy...
ok.here we go..
so ive dated this guy we will call *bob*.ive dated him quite a few times.and every time he was a jerk-off,lied,and cheated on me.
And,honestly i think i fell in love with him.wierd i know.But for 3 months now ive tried my Hardest to get over him.yeh,ive talked to other guys but they just never came close to what i felt for *bob*.
Well.he is trying to get back with me.hes promising me and my best friend he wont f*** up this time and he is going to be better and he misses me blah blah.
i dont know if i should give him One last chance or just tell him to F*ck off.
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what should i do ?
Thank you!
-amber
5-28-08
It's hard to get over someone that you really believe you were in love with. But what's harder, is trying to get over somebody who is trying to win you back over. It's merely impossible to forget a relationship and talk to other guys openly, when there's a someone always making you feel at battle with yourself. Do I forgive him? Do I move on? Do I love him? Will he cheat again?
Unfortunately, I've been in this position. And I know that no matter how many times people feed you advice, you're going to do whatever it is that your heart tells you to. Even if that means you're forgiving a jerk-off, lying, cheater.
See, I'd love to tell you to say F*** off. But, I can't. I forgave a boy who cheated on me once-- and he changed. But I had to be stern with him, and up front. Own that shit, and make it known that you're not there to mess around.. you're there because you want to BE in a relationship. So he would have to stop will all his old ways, and start over.
Things didn't work out with him and I anyway. But, we're great friends. I can tell him anything, and I love the kid to death.
There's a happy ending POSSIBILITY no matter what road you take. I will say not to give in too easily. Make him work for it. Make him really sorry he ever messed up in the first place.
(Rating: 5) omgsh
i agreed with every word you said!
Thank you so much!
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