I am a father of three, girl, boy, girl, all are now over 18. I have been married for 29 years as of 6-30-07, so yes, if you do the math I was married at 18, just after graduating high school. I am very aware of the pit falls of doing so, but we made it through the really tough times. I came to this site, because of my daughter, she also uses the site.
I am an author and have written three books, only one under this name, but it is not how I make my living. I am in business, working full time and I have a seasonal business in ponds, selling Koi, goldfish, water plants and supplies. I help people to plan and build ponds, as well as, maintenance if they need it.
I am not here for the ratings and could careless what you rate me. I will tell you things I know, I will tell you what you don't want to hear, but most of all, I will tell you things from my perspective. I have experienced a lot in my life, I have not lived with my head in the sand and I'm a realist, you want someone to blow smoke up your as*, don't read my writings, (I don't do fairy tales).
I am not so foolish as to think I am always right, I can only tell you what I know and give you something to think about. It is up to you to find out if I'm right or not.
Life is complicated, because people are complicated and one answer does not necessarily fit all, but that doesn't mean you should not consider what I say as a possibility.
Feel free to write me personally if you wish, there is only so much you can say in such a restrictive environment as this site is, it doesn't allow for proper conversation.
Thank you for coming to my column and giving me the chance to help.
E-mail: gibber@cableone.net
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Age: 53
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I wear glasses...i have for like 5 years...i have gotten really used to it as you could of guessed...well my friend and her mom told me i have really pretty eyes and need to not hide them behind glasses...so i should get contacts...but the thing is im scared i will look like an idiot...they say im just used to them and i would look fine...but what do you think i should do?? i did my make up a different way today and it looks good without my glasses and with them on...what should i do?? (link)
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If you feel you look good either way, what really is the question? Is it should I conform and do what other people want in order to please them, or is it truly about wearing glasses. If you have pretty eyes, do the glasses really hide them? If you have a cute butt, do pants really hide that?
Do what you are comfortable with and let those who you want to, discover just how cute your eyes are, (or your butt is), in time. People just don't know the value of mystery any more, keep some things hidden for the one you love to discover, that's the fun in life.
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