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Hi! My name is Kayla.. I'm 21. Through out life, I've had quite a bit of rocky roads and difficult dilemmas. They sucked at the time, but now I've become a call for help.I do it because I enjoy it.
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Hi, you answered my question about friend A and B and how they were hypocritical and stupid and junk like that. It was titled "Hypocrites..." I really liked your advice it made me feel so much better. But I sorta have another question...
I went to a party last week and both A and B were there. It was kinda weird around B, so I just mostly talked to this other girl. A had to leave early, and as soon as she did, that's when B started talking to me more. It was ridiculous. And the worst part was, she was talking to me like we were close again. Now there was no way that I could tell her how she was treating me and how it was making me feel because that would seem weird after she was all friends with me again. But then it was the same thing the day after once A was back around her.
I get the feeling that if I were to tell her what she's doing to me, she would totally deny it...just like A did. Because there was that case at the party where yes, she wasn't ignoring me. She's so two-faced...but a still don't want to lose her. Without her, basically without the rest of the group too, I'm nothing. I really don't have many other friends. =(
Any advice on what I should say? Or if I should just totally drop it at this point...
I just don't know. This might be like repetitive and sorta a duplicate of the last question, but I'm just still caught up in this mess and in need of advice.
Say something. I know that it may seem horrible that you may lose out on a friend.. but by telling her exactly what you think, will put you on a pedistool. Don't conform to the kind if people that they are, because they don't seem nice to me at all. B is USING you as a part time friend at her OWN convenience.
Good friend's don't leave you hanging.. good friend's don't make you feel this alone. As much as you want to fix things up with B, and possibly A.. it's not your responsibility to do so. They left YOU. They'll choosing to make you feel like this and it's not right.
Open your mouth to B. Ask her is she thinks it's fair how she's been treating you? Now, it's funny that you call her B.. because that's exactly how she's treating you.. Like her plan B. Don't settle for that.
Next time she pulls this on you.. straight up, and loud.. own it. Tell her she's been WRONG. Tell her you were a GOOD friend to her, and that she's not paying you any respect in return. You were there when A left her in the dust.. and if she doesn't fix this, now.. then be done with both of these hypocritical bitches.
(Rating: 5) I like your tough love approach lol. Thank you this is really really good advice.