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Hi! My name is Kayla.. I'm 21. Through out life, I've had quite a bit of rocky roads and difficult dilemmas. They sucked at the time, but now I've become a call for help.

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why would a boy get all flustered when you started talking to him again? My ex boyfriend and i used to be amazing friends and broke up a little over a month ago. i have been trying to talk to him for a while but then we just stopped. im moving in 2 weeks so today when i saw him i asked him if he would be at youth group next week. he got all flustered and was like "well i dont know what im doing, maybe." and i was like "ok well do you think you will?" and he was like i dont know what im doing!!" and then i said "ok, well you dont have to yell. i just wanted to say bye" he does that everytime i ask him something like before it was if we could hangout and he would be like "IDK IM BUSY and i have stuff to do" why does he do this? neever before when we were dating would he do this just since we broke up. thank you so much!! :) ned an answer ASAP because im seeing him tonight--thanx

Maybe it hurts him too much to hold a conversation with you, because he knows you're moving. He still might have feelings for you and he's just not ready to talk to you just yet.

There's really not much you do about it.. because you can't rush a person into being ready to talk after a break up. Maybe you should leave him alone for the next week or so, and then try one more time. if he doesn't want to say good-bye, then let it be his loss.

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(Rating: 5) thanks!! :)
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