I am a father of three, girl, boy, girl, all are now over 18. I have been married for 29 years as of 6-30-07, so yes, if you do the math I was married at 18, just after graduating high school. I am very aware of the pit falls of doing so, but we made it through the really tough times. I came to this site, because of my daughter, she also uses the site.
I am an author and have written three books, only one under this name, but it is not how I make my living. I am in business, working full time and I have a seasonal business in ponds, selling Koi, goldfish, water plants and supplies. I help people to plan and build ponds, as well as, maintenance if they need it.
I am not here for the ratings and could careless what you rate me. I will tell you things I know, I will tell you what you don't want to hear, but most of all, I will tell you things from my perspective. I have experienced a lot in my life, I have not lived with my head in the sand and I'm a realist, you want someone to blow smoke up your as*, don't read my writings, (I don't do fairy tales).
I am not so foolish as to think I am always right, I can only tell you what I know and give you something to think about. It is up to you to find out if I'm right or not.
Life is complicated, because people are complicated and one answer does not necessarily fit all, but that doesn't mean you should not consider what I say as a possibility.
Feel free to write me personally if you wish, there is only so much you can say in such a restrictive environment as this site is, it doesn't allow for proper conversation.
Thank you for coming to my column and giving me the chance to help.
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i kinda prefer women who are actually on the pill to answer please
how does the pill work? what exactly goes on in there that makes you not get pregnant?
and how long do you have to wait until it actually starts working?
i've also heard that it can make you gain weight, improve your skin or make it worse, and make you not want to have sex. is that true? has that happened to you?
thanks! (link)
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I am not a girl, but you should dig and find out the truth about the pill. Much of what came before is true, the pill tricks a womens body into thinking it is pregnant. The body starts producing the hormones that are used to protect during pregnancy. One of the things the body does is create a natural spermicide to kill sperm. The other side effects you speak of are real and much more.
The hormones that are produced, to be quite frank, can cause a women to be a bitch. This is why they're mood changes from that sweet girl you once knew, to a raving lunatic. (If this happens, the girl should tell her doctor, another form of the pill may work better in that regard.)
I've come to the realization though, that when your lady is being a bitch and she is on the pill, say "Thank you". You're confused, I can see it on your faces, but when she asks, "What the hell are you thanking me for?" You say, "for allowing me to ride bare back", (not having to wear a condom). Explain to her that you know that her moods are often caused by the pill and that you appreciate her for taking the pill for the both of you.
Sometimes that is all it takes, recognition can do a lot to make things better.
And yes, it has happened to me, STOP LAUGHING. I have lived this right along with my wife. She was on the pill for about ten years, (the length they warn you to stay under. Think about that all you girls going on the pill at 14 and 15. You should, for your own health go off the pill at 24, or 25 then, how are you and your husband going to like using rubbers for love making? Don't give me this, well there will be something else by then crap either, there has not been a viable option for the pill in over 30 years.) I have had three kids and I experienced it all right along with her, except witnessing the birth, eww, no way.
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