I am a father of three, girl, boy, girl, all are now over 18. I have been married for 29 years as of 6-30-07, so yes, if you do the math I was married at 18, just after graduating high school. I am very aware of the pit falls of doing so, but we made it through the really tough times. I came to this site, because of my daughter, she also uses the site.
I am an author and have written three books, only one under this name, but it is not how I make my living. I am in business, working full time and I have a seasonal business in ponds, selling Koi, goldfish, water plants and supplies. I help people to plan and build ponds, as well as, maintenance if they need it.
I am not here for the ratings and could careless what you rate me. I will tell you things I know, I will tell you what you don't want to hear, but most of all, I will tell you things from my perspective. I have experienced a lot in my life, I have not lived with my head in the sand and I'm a realist, you want someone to blow smoke up your as*, don't read my writings, (I don't do fairy tales).
I am not so foolish as to think I am always right, I can only tell you what I know and give you something to think about. It is up to you to find out if I'm right or not.
Life is complicated, because people are complicated and one answer does not necessarily fit all, but that doesn't mean you should not consider what I say as a possibility.
Feel free to write me personally if you wish, there is only so much you can say in such a restrictive environment as this site is, it doesn't allow for proper conversation.
Thank you for coming to my column and giving me the chance to help.
E-mail: gibber@cableone.net
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Location: Minnesota
Age: 53
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I really like how your so blunt and you tell it how it is. You don't sugar coat anything, so I want your opinion on my problem. . .
19/f
So a lot of people that know me think that I'm a player or a tease, but they really don't know what I'm going through. My problem is, is that whenever things are going good with the guy I'm dating, I seem to always find something wrong with them that really annoys me and eventually I stop talking to them. Then I just move on to a different guy and the same thing happens. . I don't know what's wrong with me?!?
I did get out of a relationship, but that was like 7 months ago. My ex has already moved on and starting dating other girls. Things didn't end very well with him and me, we fought a lot and the situation was just bad. Long story short I still had feelings for him but he couldn't stand the fighting.
I just wanna know, could that be the reason I tend to push guys away when things are getting good???? Do I need to wait longer before I date again?!? What should I do!? Am I just a Tease?
Thankz in advance :)
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Names are just a way some people use to manipulate others to do what they want them to do, or be what they want them to be. Is it wrong to be above that?
You are not a tease, you are a good spirit and you know what you want. Those who don't know what they want will always try to drag you down to their level. Countless people have tried to keep me from growing, learning and becoming who I am, but never my wife. She was the first person in my life to accept me.
Acceptance is the most important thing in life and so many just settle. They become what other people want them to be for that acceptance. You have no idea what it means to be accepted by someone who lets your spirit fly free and you to be who you were truly meant to be.
I don't care how long it takes you to find that person, but find him and accept him. Don't settle or try to make him what you want. This person is out there, he waits to accept you, never doubt that. The plan is set.
Thank you good lady, for allowing me into your life. When you find him, help your children to understand what we know, the world changes one person at a time.
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Thank you so much! You really set things into perspective for me :) You are Truely one of a Kind!!!
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