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i cut myself and its not deep but it wont heal!! it won scab over just this clear stuff comes out of it. it wasnt bleeding so i left if unbandaged but the puss/clear stuff that came out would stick to me clothes and they became attached. also it hurts really bad if it is just barely touched of when i move or something. i put a bandage on it so the puss would stop adhering to my clothes and the same thing happened to the bandaid. the puss stuff stuck to the bandaid and made them became stuck together. i dont know what to do to let it heal. last night i kept the area open and moved my clothing so it wasnt touching anything and it kinda scabed over a little but the clear puss stuff kept coming out so when i put the bandaid on and then took it off this evening the scab and puss was on the bandaid and my sore is still open, painful, and producing clear puss stuff. it is pretty small and not dee at all so i dont know whats wrong. i had another cut like this one only not as bad and it healed it just took a little longer than usual cuts do and hurt a lot but this one is taking forever. thank you!! (link)
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You probably need stitches, but it maybe too late, go have it looked at.
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Rating: 3
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its just a scrape definitly not deep enough for stitches
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