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I'm Mary. I'm a sophomore in college and I love helping people. If you ever need advice or someone to talk to I'm here for you! Never hesitate to ask or message me. Hope I can help!

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You gave really great advice. thank you so much.

the problem im facing right now is that hes my friend. and wer friends but hes still flirting a little bit. and like, the body language between us, people think were going out. and i cant be his friend without missing him so much. i tell him this but i think he wants me to miss him because he dosent want to stop talking.

so my question is, is there a way to end this "cold turkey" and it actually working?

i believe in baby steps, but i dont know what baby steps would be to solve this problem. any ideas?

thank you so so much!

Heyy. If you want your relationship with him to end completely "cold turkey", it probably will work. If you want to stop talking to him that is totally understandable.

Before you end it, you might want to tell him that, he means a lot to you but you need a break from your "relationship". You could tell him that its important to you that he understands what you're going through. You need some time for yourself to figure things out and if he really cares about you, he'll give you some space. Once you've had some time, you guys can talk again.

After you talk to him he might be hurt but he will probably understand. This is also gonna be hard on you. You will definitely miss him a lot and want to go to him, but you should just give yourself a while to get over him. Once you think you have, you can let yourself be friends with him again.

Thanks for asking me, this is a tough situation and i really hope i helped you. Let me know if things work out. Good luck! =D

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(Rating: 5) haha thanks so much! that really helped ill do that now.
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