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me and my bf have been going out for 7 months and we are in love. for some reason i cannot get over the fact that he has gotten a bj before, one time [i think] from one girl. by the way i have never given a bj or aything before. idk what my problem is. we haven't done much sexually (were taking it slow pretty slow :] ) but i don't think i would be able to progress sexually with him until i am over this stupid issue. but like the whole thing kills me inside. he says he kinda feels the same way that ive gotten fingered before but besides him i've only gotten fingered once or twice by one other guy, and my bf has fingered numerous other girls before so its definetly not the same. idk does anyone understand how i feel or any advice of what i can do to get over this? by the way saying something like oh its in the past now and theres nothing you can do about it does not help :/ (link)
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aww =[ I know how heartbreaking it can feel. Honestly, sometimes thoughts like that will come and go throughout a relationship (one time I dated a guy that had a one night stand and it killed me inside) but the only thing you can do is realize it's in the past. It's a bj so at least he didn't go all the way with her. Just look at it like this.. it's his past and you are his future, when you two decide to take it farther just do it better than his past girl did ;] hehe ps - remember to use protection! (you're young so be extra careful)
Hope you feel better love, and if you still have a hard time feel free to send me a message
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Rating: 5
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thank you so much this was the best advice ever
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