I am a father of three, girl, boy, girl, all are now over 18. I have been married for 29 years as of 6-30-07, so yes, if you do the math I was married at 18, just after graduating high school. I am very aware of the pit falls of doing so, but we made it through the really tough times. I came to this site, because of my daughter, she also uses the site.
I am an author and have written three books, only one under this name, but it is not how I make my living. I am in business, working full time and I have a seasonal business in ponds, selling Koi, goldfish, water plants and supplies. I help people to plan and build ponds, as well as, maintenance if they need it.
I am not here for the ratings and could careless what you rate me. I will tell you things I know, I will tell you what you don't want to hear, but most of all, I will tell you things from my perspective. I have experienced a lot in my life, I have not lived with my head in the sand and I'm a realist, you want someone to blow smoke up your as*, don't read my writings, (I don't do fairy tales).
I am not so foolish as to think I am always right, I can only tell you what I know and give you something to think about. It is up to you to find out if I'm right or not.
Life is complicated, because people are complicated and one answer does not necessarily fit all, but that doesn't mean you should not consider what I say as a possibility.
Feel free to write me personally if you wish, there is only so much you can say in such a restrictive environment as this site is, it doesn't allow for proper conversation.
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I get it before, during and after. I'm wondering if this is supposed to be normal? It's really bothering me. I've never experienced much of PMS before I got onto the pill. I've been on the pill for over a year and out of nowhere for the past few months I go through 3 weeks of hell. (link)
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The pill mimics pregnancy to keep you from getting pregnant. This puts your body into constant pregnant mode until the week of your period. You are most likely confusing PMS with your bodies production of hormone levels that you would normally not have. As long as you are on the pill, your body will think you are pregnant and your hormones will make you act as if you are. So if you are going to stay on the pill, you must be willing to deal with the consequences of them.
Don't be surprised that the makers of the pill, or the doctors that dispense them haven't told you this, there's no money it for them to tell you.
Follow up:
You ask me why others don't experience this, I would ask you how you know they don't? Others do experience this, a lot of others, but not all. Just like some women don't experience morning sickness and go through pregnancy without a problem.
Before you decide that this is not the problem, maybe you should try researching what I have told you. Hey, here's a great idea, stop having sex for a while and go off the pill for a few months, see if this solves your problem. Oh, but then you'll lose your boy friend won't you? After all, it is the only reason he is your boy friend.
You're hostility towards my answer is blinded by your emotion and you want an answer that suits you, like most, you want an answer that doesn't involve inconveniencing you or your happiness. Life is not that easy dear one.
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Then why do other people don't experience this then? =|
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