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Q: 16/f
I've been dating my boyfriend for a year now and lately I've been having crazy jealousy issues. I really have no reason to be jealous or suspicious of him because he's never really done anything to make me not trust him (that I know of). See, he's a year older than me, I'm a sophomore and he's a junior, and for half of the day he's at a different school than I am. There's a girl that goes there that also attends our school that I think he talks to. I'm weirdly jealous of this and thinking about her makes me angry. I don't even really know her other than she was in one of my classes. I always have these dreams that he leaves me for her. He denies that he even talks to her, which I know isn't true. Today we were at the store and she was there and she waved to him. It seems pretty harmless, but I got really upset.
I can't stand feeling like this :\ I get really jealous and I know it has to do with my own insecurities. But if he doesn't talk to her, and what he says is true, then this isn't fair for him.
So I suppose my question is, how would I go about getting over this stupid jealousy problem?
please help :[
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I dated a guy for 2 two years, and I started to get jelous alot at the end. Every girl he talked to I assumed he had a crush on. I would ask him he would say no. Apart of me knew he wasn't lieing but a BIGGER part of me was jelous because I thought maybey they liked him. But I can't control that.
Over the last few weeks of our relationship I was a jelous freak you could say. But turns out guys HATE that. He dumped me for my bff, and I was left with tears.
So my advice is to stop acting jelous it's one thing to be jelous but it's another to act on it. DON'T question him or ask around or confront the other girl. IF he is cheating you'll find out soon enough. But if you wanna keep this relationship STOP. Just be his bff/girlfriend. Go on dates and be flirty and you'll make it through his college years. Lol GOOD LUCK
-meg aka anniemaylane
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thanks a lot for your answer.. it's very true. we talked about it last night and I apologized for the way I was acting because I knew that it was really unattractive. so thanks again for your advice, I'll definitely take it :)
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Hey what's up It's me ... ASK me anything, cause I wanna help. Even if it's the most stupidist thing i'll ever hear then ask anyways.
Call me Ashley if you would like
Ask Ash. Lol Love it. So
ASK. :) no preasure
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: KY Occupation: School, School, oh & I forgot SCHOOL :(!!! MSN: meg641@live.com Member Since: May 7, 2008 Answers: 48 Last Update: November 18, 2008 Visitors: 4190
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