Gender: Female
Location: austin
Member Since: February 7, 2008
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Last Update: July 4, 2008
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First off, I'm a 25 year old male. A few years back, my first girlfriend and I broke up and remained friends. She started dating this guy who was a manipulative con artist. I called him on it, he told her I was trying to get back with her, and she broke off our friendship and threatened me if I ever spoke to her again.
In the end he did con her, and she still treats me like a stalker and threatening person. This would be easy to get over if I just didn't keep running into her and her clique.
How do I finally just get over the issue? I've long given up on making anything of this broken bond, and just want to stop letting this girl's existance bother me whenever I run into her. (link)
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You remind me of my ex-boyfriend. I still think of him as a stalker. I doubt he runs into me by accident and I am sure he is just as bitter and sour as you about me. Her "existance" bothers you? Sounds like you want her to vanish. If she is an old hate, its no wonder she sees you as a threatening person. I think you need professional counseling not nice comments you want to hear.
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By her "existance", I mean that anytime she walks into a room I'm essentially forced to leave just so she can be comfortable, regardless of how long I was there before her or who I'm with when I'm there. And yes, every time I run into her, it's by accident to the point that my friends think I have really lousy luck.
I didn't want nice comments, I wanted advice. And I don't need nor will I ever need professional help over her.
This is an advice site. I saw no advice in anything you said. I saw a condescending attitude that is more than hurtful, probably because you choose to confuse me with your ex. Deal with your own issues before trying to talk about mine.
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